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Don’t you hate it when you finally decide to swallow your pride and give somebody a second chance and it backfires? Even though part of you tells yourself that it’s a bad idea you just throw caution to the wind and try to live your best life. It usually doesn’t end up like that. I usually have really good intuition and when I start feeling bad or guilty or really any negative feelings about a situation or a plan that I have I nip it in the bud. This time, however, I didn’t have that sinking feeling that something bad was going to happen. So here’s the tea.
I made the cardinal sin texting my ex. I thought it wouldn’t be too bad because I told myself it would only be one night, that’s it. Make a short little drive then go on my merry way. I soon regretted that decision. So I drive down there no problems I am still not having that ‘I shouldn’t do this’ feeling so I’m thinking its all good. I get there I see him there’s not a lot of conversation but I wasn’t expecting it originally my plan was to just come down for the night. He convinced me to come down and stay for two nights which again I wasn’t really doing anything so why not?
So I’m there for tonight we go up we drink and then, of course, we have relations. It wasn’t how I remembered, it wasn’t even that close. Granted it was a step above, a booty call, but it wasn’t worth the drive. I’ll let it slide because again first time in a while we end up drinking and smoking and chilling for the remainder of the night.
That morning I woke up because I heard him moving and getting ready for work. I go back to sleep, when I wake up again I noticed a lot of his stuff is missing. The nightstand that he had beside him was completely cleared off. I thought that was weird but as soon as the thought came in my head it left. In all honesty, I just wasn’t expecting it to happen so I’m going about my day. I walk around town a bit then around the hotel rooms just chilling. Around 5 I still hadn’t heard from him and he got off at 4 and so I messaged him. At this point, it all came together and I just needed confirmation. I asked if he was still coming back to the hotel room he says no something came up at home.
I would have believed that, if his stuff was still in the room but seeing how none of his items that he brought over was in the room. I find that very hard to believe so so I let him know I’m going home. He says I’m sorry but doesn’t again give me any explanation as to what happened why it happened or anything. He says I can have the bottle of liquor that’s in the room. In my head, I’m thinking I was going to take that regardless after this stunt you pulled. I tell him f*** U and I go about my business in my anger.
I left upset and unsatisfied. Now a few weeks have passed and I’m no longer upset. I mean life happens right? If anything it’s just a reminder of why we broke up in the first place. How inconsiderate can one person be? Instead of being mad and upset learn, adapt, and move on. Hey, at least I got a story out of it right?
Please let me know what you guys would do in this situation. I’d love to hear your thoughts ad stories in the comments.
Don’t you hate it when you finally decide to swallow your pride and give somebody a second chance and it backfires? Even though part of you tells yourself that it’s a bad idea you just throw caution to the wind and try to live your best life. It usually doesn’t
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